Stress to the Structure

Teaching Notes

How do you experience a strong, vibrant marriage that lasts a lifetime?

A strong, vibrant marriage does not just HAPPEN; it is BUILT.

 

STRESS TO THE STRUCTURE

There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance…

Ecclesiastes 3:1-4

  • We are all subject to TIME.

Time: a proper suitable moment for an event

  • Life is SEASONS.

Season: appointed time, a specified time something will happen

  • Marriage is a SERIES of SEASONS.

Are we in a season or stuck in a cycle?

 

Every new SEASON of life almost always requires a new RHYTHM for life.

We get into RUTS when we bring our old RHYTHMS into our new season.

 

3 Seasons to Strengthen the Structure:

  • BEGINNINGS & ENDINGS

a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot,

  • STOPPING & STARTING

a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build,

  • SORROW & CELEBRATION

a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance,

 

Personally:

What season am I in or entering?

What rhythms do I need to embrace or replace?

 

Marriage & Family:

What season are we in or entering?

What rhythms do we need to embrace or replace?